It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

What do you do with a two year old? I have done this twice before so you think I should know. This little guy is just different than my other two.

I adore him, I have since the day he was born. I am thrilled every morning to hear him from his bed yell, "Mom" and as soon as I open his door he says, "Good morning, Mom". The past couple of days he has been giving "super hugs". He will just run up to any member of the family and give a great big hug. Last night Will went to bed a little early because he wasn't feeling well. About an hour after he had gone to sleep I lost sight of Jacob and went looking for him. He had gone in Will's room, climbed up to the top bunk to where Will was sleeping. When he saw me he yelled, "I'm giving Will hugs". Thankfully Will didn't wake up. One of his favorite things to do is rockabye. Before he goes down for a nap or to bed at night he always asks to rockabye. That just means that we sit and rock in the rocking chair for about 5 minutes and sing a few songs of his choice. In my mind that is a great time to sing lullabies, but for Jacob he wants to hear songs about all of his favorite characters. He will say "Ernie song" which is "Rubber Duckie" from Sesame Street, or "Cookie Song" = "C is for Cookie" also from Sesame Street. He also likes all of the Winnie the Pooh characters lately so he asks me to sing the "Pooh song" and the "Tigger Song" which is fine because they both have songs, but what do I do when he asks me to sing the "Rabbit song" or the "Piglet song"? Let's just say I am not so good at making up songs. If it were any other human being I was singing the "Rabbit song" to, I am sure I would completely humiliate myself. Jacob, on the other hand, absolutely loves it.

He is talking so well lately. The past couple of weeks I have found him saying the most unexpected things. I asked him where his binky was and his answer was, "Oh, probably down stairs". He asked me for something the other day and trying to delay getting whatever it was he wanted I asked Why? He just simply said, "Because, Mom". Yesterday he wanted my attention and said, "Hey, Annie". That was a first and quite a shocker, but very funny. We blew bubbles outside today for a while and he was running around trying to eat the bubbles. He ran up to me and while laughing at himself said, " I am eating all the bubbles Mom". It just surprises me to hear him talking in complete sentences. He is just a little man.

One big change in his 2 year old self is that he has become very independent. Everything is "Jacob do it" in a very frustrated tone as I try to buckle his seat belt or get him dressed or change his diaper. These are things that he really can't handle on his own so it is a constant battle not letting him do everything. He gets his very own snacks every 10 minutes of the day and gets them taken away every 10 minutes of the day by Mom. So lately we spend most of the day having a power struggle and explaining why it's not good to eat a whole box of Sponge bob fruit snacks in one day. I actually got mad at him for the first time yesterday over the snack issue. I yelled at him for not listening to mommy and told him if he does it again I would send him to his bed. He broke down in tears and was devastated that I had been so mean. I felt terrible but let him cry it out for a few minutes. After having a 10 second talk on why we obey mom we shared a "super hug" so now things are good.

As exhausted and frustrated as he makes me at the end of each day, I am so glad that this little boy offers so much love and joy to my life. He is living proof that there must be opposition in all things.